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long straight drive
A poem I wrote last October about the weird nostalgia of rural childhoods.

Jessyca Stoepker
Jul 1, 20221 min read


My quarter-life crisis
2020 may have been the year of global crisis, but 2021 is the year of my quarter-life crisis. Quitting my job was just one of many reasons.

Jessyca Stoepker
Aug 20, 20217 min read


The Chronicles of COVID: Anger, exhaustion, and bittersweet moments in human services
Unlike most folks, I have not yet been sent home to work remotely. While even healthcare workers took a few weeks' leave in the spring, I st

Jessyca Stoepker
Jan 24, 202110 min read


Pushing through the opacity
Take temp, down coffee, mask up. Repeat. The phrase "keep calm and carry on" has never aligned more perfectly.

Jessyca Stoepker
May 17, 20205 min read


Detachment, death, and other happenings of Michigan winters
The lists of people we claim to love can be hundreds of pages long, and yet, as my friend said, "You can't keep them."

Jessyca Stoepker
Dec 15, 20194 min read


Overshadowed: Discovering the roots of Little Traverse Bay
As many of you know, I have been accepted into and participating in events through Leadership Little Traverse, a nine-month civic...

Jessyca Stoepker
Oct 18, 20195 min read


Coffee shop humility
I’m not writing this to pat myself on the back, to brag about some high moral standards that I have or anything like that. I’m writing...

Jessyca Stoepker
Aug 24, 20196 min read


My days in Monterey
Despite not knowing this wonderful city existed until 48 hours before I left Michigan, I've fallen in love with Monterey. Located in...

Jessyca Stoepker
Jul 25, 20192 min read


So far, so cool, SoCal
I (semi-unintentionally?) spent a lot of time in Southern California, and I was going to write a more lengthy post about it. However, so...

Jessyca Stoepker
Jul 15, 20191 min read


Hiking Yosemite
“I only went out for a walk, and finally concluded to stay out till sundown, for going out, I found, was really going in.” -John Muir...

Jessyca Stoepker
Jul 2, 20194 min read


Seeing the Sequoias
Sequoia National Park--truthfully, the dream that brought me to California in the first place. It only makes sense that exploring it...

Jessyca Stoepker
Jun 26, 20193 min read


Aboard the California Zephyr
As many of you know, I’m currently chugging over to California via Amtrak for a few weeks of solo vacation. My bus left from Grand Rapids...

Jessyca Stoepker
Jun 23, 20192 min read


It's been a year since I've graduated college. Here's what I've learned so far.
Sometimes I really miss college--the roommate bonding, the clubbing on the weekends, the relief of finishing a giant research paper right...

Jessyca Stoepker
May 27, 20196 min read


Boundaries: An important part of your self-care routine
Can we just reflect on the fact that it is already April, as in A-P-R-I-L, 2019?!? Okay, thanks. I think it’s safe to say that everyone...

Jessyca Stoepker
Mar 30, 20195 min read


How perfectionism stops me from reaching my goals
Goal-setting is essential for anyone who wants to succeed in life. It doesn't matter what your goals are--they could involve bettering...

Jessyca Stoepker
Jan 28, 20193 min read


A quick & inaccurate rating of 2018
While January lasted 10 years, December has lasted 10 seconds. After a brown Christmas, I'm back to work planning out the year ahead. But...

Jessyca Stoepker
Dec 30, 20183 min read


Voice your passions
You never know to what extent your personal hobbies may affect your career. Flash back to sophomore year of college. Inspired after...

Jessyca Stoepker
Dec 3, 20185 min read


The not-so-pretty part of "self-care"
These days, "self-care" can mean just about anything. Social media gurus pose with lattes, comfy socks, and bath bombs and call it...

Jessyca Stoepker
Nov 11, 20184 min read


Salaried, but still stressed about money
To help out a friend working on an internship project, I volunteered an hour of my time the other day to answer some of his questions...

Jessyca Stoepker
Oct 27, 20184 min read


"Come back, but don't stay": Travel, education, and finding your sense of self
Like so many moms, mine was filled with a kind of hopeful sadness when I officially moved out of the house a few years ago. But she...

Jessyca Stoepker
Oct 19, 20185 min read
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